God is Gracious But Sin Has Terrible Consequences – Ryan Fullerton

God is Gracious But Sin Has Terrible Consequences – Ryan Fullerton

Now we noted that God forgives. Forgives so fully that David escapes death and brings joy to his soul. But there are consequences. I cannot tell you that if you
come clean of your sin, your wife won’t leave you. I cannot tell you that
your kids won’t hate you. That your boss won’t fire you. The government won’t arrest you. I cannot make you that promise. God often allows dark consequences to follow our sins. I know a man who pressed on for many years in pornography and saw his wife die. He felt her death was
God’s discipline for his sin. God may discipline you
terribly for your sin, but it’s still worth it to come clean. You may lose everything, but you’ll have God. (incomplete thought) Second to finally, David pleads and presses on. Now what David does next is shocking. He fasts and prays that God would not inflict the fullness
of His discipline on him. He fasts and prays for
the life of his child. Chapter 12, verse 15, “And the Lord afflicted the child that Uriah’s wife bore to David, and he became sick. David therefore sought God
on behalf of the child and David fasted and went in and lay all night on the ground. And the elders of his
house stood beside him to raise him from the
ground, but he would not, nor did he eat food with them. On the seventh day, the child died, but the servants of David were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, for they said, ‘Behold, while
the child was yet alive, we spoke to him and he
did not listen to us. How can we say to him the child is dead? He may do himself some harm.'” They thought David was suicidal. “But when David saw that his servants were whispering together, David understood that the child was dead. And David said to his servants, ‘Is the child dead?’ They said, ‘He is dead.’ Then David arose from the earth and washed and anointed himself and changed his clothes. He went into the house of
the Lord and worshiped. He then went to his
servants who said to him, ‘What is this thing you have done? You fasted and wept for the
child when he was alive, but when the child died,
you arose and ate food.’ He said, ‘While the child was alive, I fasted and wept. For I said who knows whether the Lord will be gracious to me, that the child may live. But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.'” David’s servants were confused by David, and maybe you’re confused by David too. What’s going on here? They thought he was praying
and fasting out of grief. But he was not primarily fasting and praying out of grief. He was fasting and praying for mercy. He was hoping God would remove some of the consequences. Did you know you can do that? If you come clean over your sin and God disciplines you, you can ask God to suspend the discipline. In fact, I’ve seen God grant mercy to so many disciplined
saints over the years. I remember a young woman who had lied to her school. If I remember correctly, she had cheated on a test affecting her entrance requirements. And as she came to know more of God’s holiness and grace, she came clean, but she knew she might be kicked out of her school. We prayed and prayed and God had mercy on her. And when she told the
school administration, they had mercy on her. I remember a man who
was fired for lying at work. We prayed for God to be merciful to him as he came clean. And he was given another job by a different company that day. Sometimes – many times – He does that. He releases us from the discipline. He does not treat us as our sins deserve. I knew a man who by the
time he came to Christ had such a damaged marriage that it did not look like the
marriage could be saved. Yet, he prayed and prayed, and he would not take
his wedding ring off. He prayed and prayed, but in the end, he had to take off the wedding ring because God did not restore the marriage. But God still forgave his sins. He was not treated as his sins deserved. Can I say this to you this morning? I have not been treated
as my sins deserve. And you have not been treated, believer, as your sins deserve. Perhaps you have confessed some secret sin sometime in the past and the discipline has stayed. God was being merciful to you. How you should praise God with shouts of hallelujah this morning that God didn’t reject you
and send you to hell, but He kept you as His child. And maybe you’re here this
morning and you’re like I did get myself in a pickle. I should have lost my marriage. I should have lost my job. But instead, God sustained even those. We should have shouts of
hallelujah to the rooftops for how God has preserved us even in the midst of our sin. Finally, God restores. The last two paragraphs of this chapter are fairly scandalous. David is treated with
real, practical grace. These paragraphs include two instances of God being super-gracious to David. Treating him the way we kind of get mad when we see sinners treated. Treating him well and lavishly. It says that God gives David Bathsheba. And then personally sends a note where He decides what Bathsheba’s son will be named. You talk about divine
intervention in your life. It says in v. 24 of chapter 12, “Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba and went in to her and lay with her and she bore a son and he called his name Solomon, and the Lord loved him and sent a message by Nathan the prophet so he called his name Jedidiah because of the Lord.” You can imagine how much David would have doubted the love of God after all of God’s discipline upon him. And there he is standing with his new son and Nathan comes – the same
one who had convicted him – and slips him a note. God has decided the
name of this new child. What an assurance of God’s
involvement in David’s life; God’s love for David. Now you might get all judgy about David and Bathsheba getting to have a happy marriage after all the mess they were in, but some of you started your relationship with a bunch of fornication before you were married and lo and behold, God
still gave you to each other and after you came clean of your sin, He actually gave you a stable marriage. Some of you He even gave kids. Pretty amazing really. And I know of people who
should not have gotten divorced. The Bible after all seldom allows divorce. And they should not have gotten remarried. After all, the Bible really
speaks negatively of remarriage after an unlawful divorce. I know of people who have done that, but lo and behold, God gave them grace and sometimes even children. We should not take stories like this as an excuse to sin. But if you’ve been blessed after you came clean from sin, then you have one more reason to bless the Lord this morning, and one more reason to come clean if you’ve hidden sin in your life. How can you hide sin against the God who has been so gracious to you?

12 Replies to “God is Gracious But Sin Has Terrible Consequences – Ryan Fullerton”

  1. “I shall go to him…” a confirmation that little children and babies go to heaven when they die.

  2. Amen. I would add that Absalom’s betrayal, rebellion, and death were also a result of David’s adultery and the murder of Uriah.
    The consequences of sin are far reaching.
    Do not did it. Do not give place to the devil. Strive to enter in through the narrow gate and live a life that is pleasing to the Lord Jesus Christ.

  3. I have a question Paul I was raised the way you preach is it wrong to stay with A Man as friends no Lust no sex between us would Jesus not agree with this I have been worrying. and praying that Jesus Christ would show me??? god bless you all Aman in Jesus Christ name Amen

  4. I agree God's grace is sufficient but we pay via consequences of our sin.I know I have been heavily disciplined by God.Had to walk out the bad crop I sowed…yes I reaped loss pain and heartache becos of my disobedience but Jesus held my hand and was very very merciful and loved me through all of it.It could have been so much worse.Thank God I learnt and I know I have not been treated as my sin deserved….so remember GOD IS NOT MOCKED WHATEVER A MAN SOWS HE WILL REAP…..be careful be obedient I would not change those lessons and love the Lord so so so much because of His kindness to me.

  5. We have to remember that as we go along planting bad seeds they don't always come up right away. It could be years later. Even years after salvation that things that we had sown in our past keep springing up. We have to repent and push on though. Forgiving others is one thing, but when it comes to forgiving oneself it can be very tough. It's extremely hard as humans, if not impossible, to FORGET about the sins we've committed. Thank God it is not so for our Lord and Savior. Good message Pastor 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  6. How can I be angry with others for grace they received while knowing God has not crushed me for my rebellious ways? I am often baffled with how little I view myself in light of the Doctrines of Grace and also how I tend to minimize my sins while being angry at others as if their sins cannot be forgiven. I should really be asleep because I have church tomorrow 😬, but I thank God for speaking truthfully through Pastor Fullerton.

  7. AMEN !!!! The BEST of us don't have a right to complain about ANYTHING !! PRAISE GOD Jesus Christ for His grace and mercy

  8. I am angry that God doesn't protect us better. He ends up coming through as mean in my experience. Killjoy. Silent. Invisible. Strict. Unclear

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